Service 2: Blessing of a Civil Union

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The Blessing of a Civil Union adapted from The Book of Common Prayer, 1979

The Rite begins as prescribed for celebrations of the Holy Eucharist, using the Collect and Lessons appointed in the Marriage service or appropriate for Holy Union.

After the Gospel (and homily), the couple stands before the Celebrant, who addresses them in these or similar words

 N. and N., you have come here today to seek the blessing of God and of his [or the] Church upon your union. I require, therefore, that you promise, with the help of God, to fulfill the obligations which, in the context of the Church, such union demands.

 The Celebrant then addresses each partner in turn, saying

 N., you have taken N. to be your spouse (or partner, or some equivalent term). Do you promise to love her/him, comfort her/him, honor and keep her/him, in sickness and in health; and, forsaking all others, to be faithful to her/him as long as you both shall live?

 The Partner answers I do.

 The Celebrant then addresses the congregation, saying

 Will you who have witnessed these promises do all in your power to uphold these two persons in their union?

 People We will.

 If rings are to be blessed, the two partners extend their hands toward the Priest, who says

 Gracious God, bless these rings to be signs of the vows by which these two have bound themselves to each other; through Jesus Christ our Savior. Amen.

 The Celebrant joins the right hands of the couple and says

 Those whom God has joined together let no one put asunder.

 The Congregation responds Amen.

 The service continues with The Prayers in The Celebration and Blessing of a Holy Union.
 

In the Marriage and Blessing section of the Oasis Web Site you will find:

• Service 1: Celebration and Blessing of a Holy Union • Service 2: Blessing of a Civil Union • Service  3: Order for Holy Union • Service  4: New Zealand Prayer Book • Service  5: New Westminster Rite • Background & History •

 

 

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