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Hope
Healing is God’s work. We have the opportunity to open ourselves to God’s healing power. The Gospels are filled with stories of people who ardently turned to Jesus for healing. We learn about the nature of healing from these Gospel stories: God’s healing power is not alien to our lives, it is within us, though largely unrecognized; we play an important part in each other’s healing; concomitantly we can also be barriers to the healing of others; forgiveness is closely connected to healing, as is truth; a life of freedom, gratitude, and joy lies on the other side of healing.

The traumas of our constituent communities in the Diocese of California are not unique to us. Efforts at healing and reconciliation too have sprung up within the Church and civil society in many places beyond South Africa (Greensboro, North Carolina, for instance formed its own Truth and Reconciliation Committee, and the Episcopal Diocese of North Carolina took an active part in the city’s reconciliation work.). The Diocese of California and the Bay Area, however, have a history of social and technical innovation that benefits its own citizens and the country, in the sense of being an avant garde.

Based on our own work in the Beloved Community visioning process, our observation of the history and current condition of multiculturalism in the diocese, including an awareness of the importance of the dominant culture as an affected group within what is understood as multiculturalism, I have begun conversations with Fr. Michael Lapsley to invite his work in healing of memories into the Diocese of California as a whole.

Background
The 20th Century brought a shift in human consciousness that can be traced to dramatic changes in population levels and technology. Spiritually the experiences of World Wars I and II, and the Holocaust, and genocides in Armenia, Cambodia, and Rwanda, to name the most notorious examples led to unique responses of grace and compassion, embodied in efforts at reconciliation, most famously the Truth and Reconciliation Committee headed by Archbishop Desmond Tutu in South Africa.

Fr. Michael Lapsley (shown here with Archbishop Desmond Tutu)  extended the work of the TRC by creating the Institute for Healing of Memories. People in churches and secular non-profits across the United States have grasped the importance of Fr. Lapsley’s work, and invited him and his co-workers into a variety of other situations where serious trauma hampers human life: soldiers returning from Iraq and Afghanistan; immigrants who have fled abject poverty and repression; prisoners re-entering the world outside prison to name several examples.

Please see this Wikipedia article on Fr. Lapsley; he is an international hero in human rights movements, having been a chaplain to the ANC during the anti-apartheid struggles in South Africa, and is an Anglican priest and member of the monastic order Society for Sacred Mission.)

The Diocese of California has sustained and continues to experience afresh serious traumas throughout its discernible sub-groups. Immigrants face the break-up of families, economic disaster, and danger associated with deportation. The LGBT community lives with the recent and ongoing devastation of the AIDS pandemic whose originating epicenter was San Francisco, and the reality of hate crimes perpetuated against gays in this country and worldwide. The Afro-Anglican community lives with the history of 400 years of slavery and the “traces of the trade” present in current patterns of privilege and power. Asian communities have experienced internship, blatant racism within their own Church, and within civil society economic disparity and racially-motivated violence. Women still experience wage disparity and unequal access to jobs and promotions, and were recognized as full voting citizens less than a century ago.

One example of the traumas our various communities have sustained is the sale by the Diocese of the church buildings of both True Sunshine, San Francisco and Our Saviour, Oakland, historic, faithful Chinese-America parishes. The sense of betrayal felt by these communities is a wound that has not healed.

Many thoughtful, effortful attempts to “grow” the Church within its multicultural communities and to extend the Church to multicultural communities outside the Church have been sponsored within the Diocese of California. Two enduring factors have marred these efforts: the dominant culture has been largely absent from them; the multicultural communities have not been present to one another’s challenges and suffering.

Plan
Fr. Lapsley and an associate from the Institute for Healing of Memories will fly to San Francisco from South Africa on November 17. On November 18, 19, and 20 Fr. Lapsley will hold three session, in different places in the diocese on each evening or day, to introduce the diocese to his work in the healing of memories. These events will not be formal healing of memories workshops, but will prepare the ground for a series of healing of memory workshops to be held in the diocese throughout 2011.

The workshops in 2011 will be carefully planned to respond to the needs of our constituent communities within the Diocese of California. For instance, we recognize that within the broad spectrum of communities designated Latino/Latina there are indigenous peoples, who have often been the objects of state-sponsored violence in their countries of origin – given their different cultures, languages, and histories of trauma, how would the Healing of Memories workshops need to be articulated to be of the most use to these people?

Teams of facilitators with particular language fluency and cultural knowledge, and people with counseling and chaplaincy skills will join the Institute for Healing of Memories staff for the various 2011 workshops, with the teams changing according who is participating.

In early 2012 we will take stock of where we are, seeking to appreciate the healing work God has given us in 2011. On the basis of our understanding of our healing, our changed self-understanding, we will build a description of the multicultural work going forward, including a job description for a multicultural staff officer on the team at DioHouse.

It is my hope that the Diocese of California, as a family, a beloved community, will open itself to God’s healing power. I hope this for our own sake, for the sake of the many people with whom we live in the Bay Area who long for grace and peace, who long for God in their lives, and for the many who look to our diocese and our state for leadership.

 

The letter above is form our bishop, the Rt. Rev. Marc Anrdus.

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